Yes, because without it you cannot find the person you really love.

No....people say its destiny why i got this its not destiny you have to work for it.....its destiny you found coz' sometimes you think he is the one but in the end he leaves you.....and if you believe in destiny its like your waiting for something that will happen with no fault of anyone....another example.... you want to be a doctor and one day you did....did you just wait and dreamt and said this is destiny no....cause you worked for it so you could get that job