This question is quite diffucult coz it is more on swelf experience than scientifically or theory based answers though the only thing that i can share you is that to be a good leader you must have the self confidence . stashing yourself specially when you are indeed talented is a big waste not only waste of the things that you might or can share to everyone but also , is a big waste of yourself or of your talent. you must also consider the ability to effectively communicate with your supposedly members. interaction is the most essential element for you to become a good leader.